Valentine’s Day has carried with it an intrinsic ability of pushing the belief that a guy is the one who courts a girl and hence he must do all that is required for satisfying her. This belief has infiltrated into the minds of a large section of the people and probably it is here to stay a bit longer. 

False, Lies and Sins All Over: 

Soon after a couple starts dating, they soon begin to feel a tremendous urge of acting in a certain manner. These are the repercussions of the standards imposed by the society, which makes them extend themselves well past their comfort level. They try to be someone else from what they actually are and this is like committing a sin. By giving away to these wrong standards of the society, they actually fail a very significant test in their way. In fact, they harm themselves and their relationship to such extents, which cannot be easily mended. This would also mean lowering your moral values and conveying indirectly to one’s own self as well as others that, “I am no good”. The problem here is that the people in love are not treating each other equally, which is very important in all relationships. By committing such acts of gifts and flowers, they convey that they are not into the relationship because of the value of the partner, but because of such material stuff like gifts which mean specifying the value or price for love. Consequently there is a loss of importance in the partner’s eyes and such relationships get dumped sooner or later.  

Be Honest With Your True Self: 

If one really wants to be charismatic, magnetic and appealing, the most important thing is to be very honest with your own self and being what you are, not somebody else out on a false mission to impress. If that requires you to empty your wallet, then go ahead with your February 14 or any other day that u want to celebrate. Refrain from false behavior which instead conveys a wrong signal about your feelings for your partner. 

Love Is Divine, Never Fake It! 

Being in love is a very special feeling. So, never fake things for proving it. Faking would actually mean that the other person is not yet a special person for you. By behaving falsely, you are doing the following sins:

• Compromising your morals and principles.
• Lowering your worth and self respect.